20231128: My very reliable memory

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I keep reminding and following up on many things with everybody I ask for something. To the point of frustration and getting upset with me (although everyone is polite and thank me for it 🙂). I can certainly imagine how irritating it must be.

I do it simply because of my own experience. Everybody has a huge pile of things to do everyday and they keep adding to the pile and many many things get forgotten or slips down in priority and I only try to bring back things to the top of the pile.

Obviously I have a great memory to be able to do this consistently with many people on many fronts.

So what is the secret to my good memory?

I wish it was some glamorous thing like that and I could tell you my diet for the reliable memory.

The reality is, I had a massive stroke years ago and my memory is worse than anyone who I know. Definitely much worse than myself before my stroke.

So what is the secret behind it?

The secret is knowing I have a very poor and unreliable memory - and accepting it fully. Not relying on my memory for anything.

I have a magic wand in my hand - a smartphone! The same magic wand everyone has in their hands (most much smarter and more powerful than my wand)

I just use the very basic spells of the wand like "calendar", "reminders" and "tasks" to replace my memory.

The trick I have mastered with my wand is "discipline" and "consistency" - both very very easy tricks but first needs acceptance that "I need help"... 


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  1. Anonymous30/11/23 08:02

    We have the tools but we lack the consistency and discipline to put them to good use. Amrit

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