20211123 : Write
I think it takes a lot to write. Not effort (well that also, but I think that is the least bit). I am not referring to some lofty things - just basic conversation stuff. When one speaks to someone, if they feel they are not conveying something correctly, one can rephrase, use different words, change their tone, use a different body language, etc. Basically explain themselves better. However, when one writes, they have to get it right the first time. Use the right words and convey things right. Many times, one won't get a response. Can't really know if the message was conveyed, what thoughts in provoked or what emotions it evoked. Once the arrow has left the bow, no taking it back. Just have to hope that the aim was right. With time, everyone gets better at this. I also think it takes courage. Many times, when one speaks to someone, over time - words fade, memories twist and one can always say that they didn't mean it that way. Worse, one can absolutely deny having said som