" I love you "... What does it mean? I am aware of what it means generally. We are familiar with those words commonly in many contexts. This is a debate and deliberation I have been having in my mind for some time now. We can love people - our parents, siblings, spouses, children, family, friends, etc. We can love animals - dogs, cats, all forms of pets. Or generally be an animal lover overall. "I Love all animals" type... Or, we can love things as well - so many times we have heard "I love my car", "I love my bike", "I love my house", etc, etc. But what does it mean? I feel this (and I am sure there will be many other perspectives and interpretations) I cannot really simply say "I love someone" and leave it at the level of words. My love towards someone can only become real if I find ways to express my love towards them. Expressing love happens in several forms - care, affection, attention, concern, sacrifice, adjusting,...
Recently, I wrote that I am living on the edge everyday between going on v / s giving up. It probably can also be interpreted as the edge of remaining sane v / s going insane... Anyway, I have often wondered, when everything is looking so bleak to the mind's eye, what makes me go through the day and make it to the next day. What is it that is causing this? Is Love what is giving me the strength? Love is a very fashionable word in my opinion. It is very easy to say we love someone. It is equally applicable to our love towards people, animals and things. In my opinion, Love gets manifested to reality with care and affection. That's how our love is expressed. Sure, I love my wife, children, family and friends. Everyone to different extent s depending on the degree of closeness or separation. But it has been many many years since I have really expressed any love through care towards anyone. In the initial period of the stroke, I was very very desperate to want t...
There are many challenges and limitations that I face everyday, to just get by the day. I am not unique in that aspect. There are 100s of thousands of people who face challenges and limitations everyday. I think it is the element of "hope" that is different. I am guessing (& I might be wrong here ), but I feel somehow there might be an element of hope for some improvement in the future that p ropells most to go on. I am guessing it might also be the situation with very elderly individuals who have an unexpected mishap/ accident and impacts them severely . e g , consider an elderly person in , say - their 80s, reasonably independent otherwise , but having an unexpected accident / fall breaking their back/hip. It will be very severely limiting. Given their age, they will inherently know (I am guessing again ) that "hope" and probability of recovery is very dim. That's very very demoralising and di...
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